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What does the Bible say about friends?

by Daniel · · 3 minute read

Friendships are an important part of our life. Very few people want to spend their life without any friends. How many close friends do you have?

Top view of smiling friends lying on grass

Friendships are an important part of our life. Very few people want to spend their life without any friends. How many close friends do you have? Not just acquaintances but the people who really know you deeply and still love you and vice versa. It’s said that if you end up with five really close friends over the course of your life, you should consider yourself to be really blessed.

True friendships are a gift from God. They are so rare and precious. Friendships cost us a lot of time and energy, at times they can be hard and frustrating. But good friendships are life changing. They can be a source of incredible pleasure, encouragement, comfort and inspiration.

What if you don’t have many friends? God’s Word has a lot to say about choosing friends wisely and how we ought to be to get good friends.

A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Proverbs 18:24 (NKJV)

A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity.

Proverbs 17:17 (NKJV)

As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.

Proverbs 27:17 (NKJV)

Do not be deceived: ‘Evil company corrupts good habits.’ Awake to righteousness, and do not sin; for some do not have the knowledge of God. I speak this to your shame.

1 Corinthians 15:33-34 (NKJV)

And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.

Ephesians 4:32 (NKJV)

The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.

Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV)

Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up. Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; But how can one be warm alone? Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (NKJV)

Ointment and perfume delight the heart, And the sweetness of a man’s friend gives delight by hearty counsel.

Proverbs 27:9 (NKJV)

Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

Proverbs 27:6 (NKJV)

Therefore comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing.

1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NKJV)

A perverse man sows strife, And a whisperer separates the best of friends.

Proverbs 16:28 (NKJV)

He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will be destroyed.

Proverbs 13:20 (NKJV)

And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.

Hebrews 10:24-25 (NKJV)

Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.

John 15:13 (NKJV)